Old house sold, new house in sight and other divorce related news

 So much going on in my life right now and for starters, our old house is sold and I placed an offer on a house (apartment) yesterday. Wish me luck it'll go through!! So exciting for sure and what makes it even more exciting is that this new two-bedroom apartment is located in another town so it really is a new start. I'm not very good at waiting for things to happen as I keep wondering, when the sellers will say yes or no. I just cant wait!!

Divorce proceedings

So as we filed for divorce back in august right after summer vacation and I returned to my old job, things have changed a lot since then. It's been really tough living in the same house (that we just sold but are still allowed to live there until the end of this year) and listening to my soon-to-be-ex's complaints about ending our marriage. And after listening to that for weeks and moving to another small apartment (week-to-week kinda thing), he finally agreed on the divorce and how it was inevitable it was the right thing to do. You know, we may always be in love with each other and truly care for one another but we just can't live together anymore. It's really tough to actually like someone but knowing this relationship will never be the same anymore. Weird and sad, at the same time. So now we're moving on, in the end of this year for the latest and trying to find two apartments not too far away from each other because of the kids. And with this pandemic time, there just are no apartments for sale and to be able to find two - that's tricky ;) Wish us luck!! Good thing is we were able to sell our house and agreed on many things. That's not the case for many couples that are divorcing.

Kids

Kids, our everything. They are coping surprisingly well and living in these two different homes (home-home old house vs apartment). And soon there will be two new apartments in a different town - we'll see how that goes. I do have a feeling everything will end up well in the end but you never know. Us parents agreed on that we're not gonna do that week here at one parent, week there at the other parents house -kinda thing because we just cant. I miss my kids too much and we're basically gonna let them decide what they wanna do. If they wanna live with their dad, that's fine to me - as long as dad's fine with that too.

Okay, this was probably boring to most people but I wanted to share this because it plays a major, HUGE, role in my life right now. In the end people will cope and be just fine with it, right?

Happy wednesday, folks! And again, wish me luck :)

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